Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Book list

Someone recently asked me to put together a list of the books I have read or liked. Here is a list of all the books I have recorded that I read in the past several years, along with some brief synopsis. (Sometime in the next couple weeks I will post the ones that are dear to my heart and that, if forced to choose, would keep even when I should give most of them away :)...)

October 2006

Listening For Lions, by Gloria Whelan: excellent! Good for older child, about racist themes, honesty, and love (194 pgs.)

Chasing Vermeer, by Blue Balliett: excellent! Fun for math ideas, art appreciation, mystery, codes, older child level (254 pgs.)

Seven Wonders of Sassafrass Springs, by Betty C. Birney: excellent! Fun read-a-loud. Exciting underlying idea of finding “wonders” in our own backyard, so to speak; fun to create theme of study on this (205 pgs)

My Father’s Dragon, by Ruth Stiles Gannett: fun and quick Good for read-a-loud for the whole family; about using your head, clever with a slight theme of disrespect for parents (74 pgs.)

The Alchemist, by Paulo Coelho: fantastic! A thought-provoking, fable like tale of life, missions, distractions, and perspective. (164 pgs.)

The Comedy of Errors, by William Shakespeare: funny but a bit too asinine. Discourages jumping to conclusions, encourages having a strong sense of judgment to not be deeply affected by any rumor or have small instances blow out of proportion. Also a good study on vocabulary. One of the least meaningful of the Shakespeare plays I’ve read.

Parenting Breakthrough, by Boyack (sp). Excellent, realistic ideas about how to teach your children independence by teaching skills, accountability, and work ethics by the time they leave your home. Also good ideas about teaching money sense. (Approx 250 pgs.)

The Inside-Outside Beauty Book, by Barbara Barrington Jones. Light, teenage-level about confidence and beauty, dwells more on feelings of self-worth than outward beauty tips...which is consistent with her premise that outer beauty is reflected by inner beauty. Okay, easy read. (98 pages)

The Confident You, by Barbara Barrington Jones. Much more practical and hands on than her other book above, but the way she writes is often hard to follow, jumpy, and overly sappy (but, again, better than in the previous book).

December 2006

No Doubt About It by Sheri Dew fantastic

Boy at War juvenile fiction about the bombing of Pearl Harbor (read to preview for Kel) alright. Not great morals or message, but minimally questionable read.

Bonds that Make us Free, by Warner, fabulous, but not as readable as the Anatomy of Peace. Harder to understand the overall concepts, but great, personally affecting examples.

FableHaven, Moss(?) Great fantasy book read-a-loud for youth. Fun characters with themes of obedience and consequences for irresponsibility.

January 2007

Poison Study, an interesting fantasy book but with too much sensuality thrown it to ruin it. Didn’t read the next books in the series.

The Anatomy of Peace, by the Arbinger institute fabulous and life changing about being a better person

A Separate Peace,

February 2007

CFA Martin Luther King Jr. Excellent resource of black civil rights history. Great poems and song outlines inside.

The Unicorns of Balinor, mediocre youth fiction read. A little dark with gaps in the plot and too much predictability in the characters.

Flatland, by Abbott–an interesting satire that is mind-expanding about the concept of dimensions. About 100 pages.

The Kite Runner, by Khaled Hosseini, a fictional look at the recent history of war-torn Afghanistan. A story of two boys, their friendship and love betrayed by self-doubt and jealousy. A story of forgiveness, and an interesting look at the Afgani culture (written by an Afgani, so hopefully fairly accurate). Disturbing scenes and language...not one I’ll read again, but in many ways I am grateful for the glimpse. Around 400 pages.

March 2007

The Three Musketeers, by Alexander Dumas. A somewhat shallow book about consistently bad examples of good virtues. One good quote: (pg. 241) “A rogue does not laugh in the same way that an honest man does; a hypocrite does not shed the same tears as a sincere man. All falsehood is a mask, and however well made the mask may be, with a little attention we may always distinguish it from the true face.” 626 pages.

The VonTrapp Family Singers, by Maria Von Trapp. Great, with good ideas of education, family traditions, and music. A nice, positive account of Catholicism. A little over 300 pages.

Gooney Bird Greene, by Lois Lowry. Youth, 86 pages. Great introduction to story telling.

A Week in the Woods, by Andrew Clements. About 200 pages. Young adult story with excellent themes about responsibility for personal behavior, the positive effect of hands on work/learning, survival skills, and benefits of allowing children unstructured time.

More Team Building Challenges, a great book for ideas about group games/challenges.

April 2007

The Thomas Jefferson Education Home Companion, by Diann Jeppson and the DeMille’s. Pretty good...I liked the parts that the DeMille’s wrote particularly, and felt that Diann’s part came across a bit overbearing.

Fairest, by Gail Larson Levine. 326 pages. Engaging book, clean, and interesting twist of how much are we compelled to do or really just think we have to do. Also, thought-provoking concepts of our gifts, how we use them and take care of them, etc.

May 2007

The Five People You Meet in Heaven, . About 200 pages, I didn’t finish (about 50 pages from the end) due to the overly dramatic, crass way he wrote. The story didn’t seem to provide closure or healing as the main character looked back at his experiences, which is what I think the author was trying to do.–I finished this in July...it was better towards the end, but it was as though the author was trying to hard to make it a classic, moving story...and came short.

The Explosive Child, Ross W. Greene, c. 1998. Interesting book about how to prevent, anticipate, and deal with explosive, inflexible children. I only read one third, skimmed another third, and didn’t read the end due to the persistent recounting of terrible swear words “in dialogue”. I understood his premise and methods only after trudging through the mire of self-conceit, excessive examples (pertinent perhaps to school age/older children), and repetitive conclusions. P 332

July 2007

Captains Courageous, by Rudyard Kipling. 189 pages. A book that captures the flavor of sea life, complete with difficult to follow dialogue (not easily suitable for younger readers for that reason). The last thirty pages or so really completes the book as a statement of the power of work and discipline on the positively shaping of a young man into a man of confidence and power.

Shiloh, approx 200 pages. Story about a young boy who hides a dog from an abusive master. I don’t agree with the author’s resolution or ending statement of how sometimes right and wrong don’t stay the same. The boy, although troubled by the lies he tells to keep the dog, seems to toe the line of integrity in appearances and seems to feel that the end justifies the means. There are quite a few good discussion questions in the end of the version I read, though, and it did help me understand a bit more the possible bond between a person and an animal.

The Secret Life of Bees, by Sue Monk Kidd, 302 pgs. An interesting story about a young woman discovering the truth about her past during the time when the Civil Rights Act was passed. It is in many ways a beautiful tale about relationships, racial issues, and developing into womanhood. It explores the bond between women as they seek to comfort and teach each other, as they work and worship together, and the beauty and healing of forgiveness, unconditional acceptance, empathy and love. The themes of the value and nature of motherhood and womanhood are strongly developed in such a way to enable to reader to explore her own feelings on the matter. Although the language was a bit too brazen about Lily’s images of herself and the book had vulgarity throughout, the language of nature (the bees, the river, the seasons, etc) was poetic and helped create a nest, a safe environment for Lily to grow, develop and learn to love and be loved. It was a very empathetic novel, more suitable to an older teen or adult

A few parts that I liked out of the book: Lily, describes how she refrains from throwing a fit because she knows it doesn’t do any good or change anything, so she lets out her frustration in a long sigh. What a great lesson. I could have read the whole book just for that line.

Nobody’s perfect. You just have to close your eyes and breathe out and let the puzzle of the human heart be what it is.” (Pg 285)

The Miracle of Forgiveness, by Spencer W. Kimball, pg 360 (approx.) A very no-nonsense look at the gospel and the need for each of us to seek forgiveness, and the way to do it. Powerful in many ways. I liked the quotes on not limiting the number of children which came at a time when I needed to hear it. It took a long time, but it was worth it.

August 2007

The Fourth Turning, by Strauss and Howe, pg 340 (approx.) Fabulous, paradigm-changing read about historic cycles, with marvelous information that captures the vibrance of lives and “eras” gone by...and yet to be? The ideas the authors present give hope in times of “unraveling” values, as well as giving value to individual lives and personalities.

Up From Slavery, by Booker T. Washington, pg 214. More about freedom from the slavery of ignorance, prejudice, physical passion/laziness, and covetousness than from physical slavery. Great model for developing a school that teaches work along with “official” education (Greek & Latin). Themes: work, freedom, slavery, independence.

The Silent Gondoliers, by William Goldman, pg 110. A few swear words, written in Goldman’s saucy tones. Wonderful story with the thought provoking idea, “How can the removal of beauty from a world so lacking in beauty be anything but tragic?...And can the loss of beauty be anything but bad?...That is for you to decide.” My decision, yes, if it is replaced by something even more noble or beautiful, such as sacrifice and love. The Gondoliers replaced something that brought them vanity and separateness one from another and replaced it with something noble and self-sacrificing, which brought them together. How can it not be good create unity? In light of the Fourth Turning...I sound like someone living in the first turning... “unity is essential!” not someone from the Unravelling “everything for the individual!” I wonder if this book gains popularity at different times in history...

Also a book to look at how an individual’s life can be so tragically bad/unfortunate despite great labors to overcome adversity, and still have a great impact on others.

Sometimes I feel like Luigi...no matter what I do, I cannot fix me. I am grateful for the Atonement of Christ that enables my life to be valuable.

Wild Swans: Three daughters of China, by Jung Chang, pg 508. A brutally succinct depiction of the evolution of Chinese life from under the empirical “warlords”, to the Kuomintang, to the Communists. The instability of their lives, literally at the whim and mercy of the current power, was incredible. It made me see how someone could accept communism as a possible option. It also made me think about how much it mirrors the law of Consecration...only that would only be effective with a righteous judge and ruler...which the Chinese never had. A memoir. I felt like it was a great overall impression of Chinese history...kind of a “feel of a country in a nutshell”...but, of course, I have nothing to compare it to. ☺

September

Fascinating Womanhood: by Andelin, pg approx 3-400. Read half-way, skimmed the rest (was repetitive in examples & ideas). Book with great underlying message about how men want to be admired and women like to be cherished with ideas to go about doing this. Be cautious about recommending this one...without a good core, this book can be demeaning and destructive to a woman and her identity & relationship with her husband.

October 2007

The Mourning Dove: A Story of Love, by Larry Barkdull, pg 86. A symbolic tale about a boy living with his grandfather after the death of his parents. The overall message parallels the Atonement, and how, even when we do wrong, the price has been paid so that we may do better, live better, and become more. Nice story.

November 2007

Alas, Babylon, by Pat Frank, pg. approx 200. Great book about an apocalyptic event and what might happen to society and individuals as they try to cope with it. Young adult suitable.

Mr. President–a book of US Presidents” Scholastic Biography, pg. 175, by George Sullivan, which was a quick, seemingly non-partial overview of our presidents, their main strengths and weaknesses while in office. Great youth non-fiction read.

To Kill A Mockingbird, by Harper Lee, pg 322. Wonderful! This book has so many great themes and topics of discussion from honor, integrity, seeing people for who they are/not judging, prejudice, fairness, parenting, living responsibly...so many! Some of the discussions and language may not be age appropriate for younger readers. I was amazed at the messages of education (home education in particular), seeing the beauty of others or "walking in their shoes", integrity, parenting and tolerance that were so simply put forth in those pages. Another personal classic!

The Abolition of Man, by C.S. Lewis, pg 87. Great (albeit complicated) reflections on the importance of teaching morality in schools through reading and discussions. Read it twice to get it better. Plough through the first time!

December 2007

Bury my Heart at Wounded Knee, approx 600 by Dee Brown. I skimmed through this one. While it is interesting and truly heart-wrenching to read about the sad accounts of the American Indian, I have honestly skimmed and jumped because it is literally the same thing, over and over again. This book would be a good reference when studying the degeneration of a particular tribe, or if one needed to catalogue all the terrible things people have done in the name of government with the motivation of wealth. However, it hasn’t really changed anything for me. I still feel pity for what happened, but hearing fifty different ways about how white men maimed and brutalized women and children hasn’t done much for me. Read after referencing 1 Ne 13:13-15, which, much like the Jewish atrocities, doesn’t justify it, but perhaps explains how time and again the American Indians suffered defeat. I loved the quotes in the book, elucidating the connection of that people to their land and families. The last section about “the Messiah” made me think about the caution to us about false Messiahs raised in the last days, who will lead many astray. Despite the obvious falsity of the situation, it was eye-opening how many truths about His coming still were latent among the people. This book reminded me of the other book I’m currently reading, Kon Tiki that refers to the ancestral “white” race of Polynesian tradition.

I Am A Mother, by Jane Clayson Johnson, pg 128. Great book with collection of quotes and experiences that help women see the joy in the “mundane” of motherhood. ☺ An empowering statement of our divine worth and significance.

Kon-Tiki, by Thor Heyerdahl, pg 230. I just skimmed this–it was a book trying to prove how the population of the Polynesian islands could have come in part from South America. He used archeological connections, similarities in diet, language, and religion, not to mention traditions that stated “white ancestors came from the east over the big water”. In order to prove his theory, Thor gathered some men, crafted a raft comparable to what they believe could have been employed by primitive peoples in South America, and then sailed across, propelled by nothing more than the current and prevailing winds, living off items available to ancient Americans. It has many interesting notes about sea life, survival, and testing a hypothesis scientifically.

Gathering Blue, by Lois Lowry, pg 215. Good book, if grounded in Core. Many potentially controversial subliminal messages about blind obedience, dangers of tradition, and questioning authority. I enjoyed it immensely, the idea of gifts, personal vision, and value of tolerance, love and kindness have on the structure of society.

Goose Girl, pg approx 300. Fascinating re-telling of Grimm’s “Goose Girl”. A story about realizing inner potential, finding our own gifts, and how to use and contribute. Different ideas about leadership, educating ourselves for a purpose, having integrity, and loyalty are strongly and well presented.

January 2008

The Virginian, by Owen Wister, approx 400 pages. A five Pillar GWC “Classic”, which I thought was poorly written. While it may accurately capture the life, personality, and diction of an American Cowboy, I saw little to emulate and didn’t like the conclusions of justice.

Geronimo, Childhood of Famous American Series, approx 200. Great account of Geronimo’s possible childhood–a quick, fun read for 8-12 y.o. boys.

Nectar in a Sieve, by Kamala Markandaya, pg 186. I really liked this book, its themes of quiet contentment and beauty among trying conditions of poverty and persecution, until I discovered...on the last page...that it was a fiction. While I could have found this out earlier, I didn’t, and looking back find some of the examples pretentious. If they were examples out of a real life, I can understand it, but now I wonder about the accuracy of the portrayal of an Indian woman living in poverty. Some of the major themes were: one of waiting, calm acceptance of terrible things that happen in our lives; finding joy in the simple things of earth and family; the question of how valuable a knowledge of our own impotence can be–will it just make us frustrated and discontent vs our previous calm resignation. “What more is there? What more can I do? It is how things are.” It is a beautiful book, though, the beauty of a life simply and completely lived with integrity to one’s personal convictions.

A Winter’s Tale, by Shakespeare. Quick, insightful read about the consequences of rash behavior and the inherent value of a person true to their qualities, birth, and station.

February 2008

To Destroy You is No Loss, by JoAn D. Criddle, The story of Teeda Butt Mam. This is a powerful, simply told account of a young woman and her family in the face of changing governments, the most “remarkable” of which was the Khmer Rouge, a communist dictatorship that killed hundreds and thousands of Cambodian people. This was not an issue of racial or even cultural prejudice–it was simply the desire of a small group of people to exercise control and authority over another. With a population of approximately 8 million, 50,000 soldiers and leaders of the Khmer Rouge were able to manipulate them with false promises, deception and brutality. Remarkably “clean” for a book about a genocide; a powerful testimony of the importance of preserving freedom when you can is easier than taking it back later,...further, the importance of intelligent awareness of government and caution against taking the “safer” way out. They continually held to empty promises and hope, having given no foundation to believe the regime.

Princess Academy, Shannon Hale, pg 314. Wonderful story about a young woman who finds her place in society. Rampant with values and standards I myself hold dear; captivating and page-turning. Ideal young adult fiction. Captures the value of an education in many areas to become a “capable princess”...the desire of any young maid ☺.

March 2008

A Heart Like His, by Virginia H. Pearce. Pg 106. Quick, anecdotal read which I have had people refer to me as “life-changing”. While I found some good ideas in it, it wasn’t transforming, as I have come to many of the same conclusions already. It did have truth in it.

Laddie, by Gene Stratton-Porter.

April 2008

Leadership and Self Deception, Great book about self-deception and the powerful, proactive role we can have in relationships. Written in the context of a business, but applied to personal relationships

Anatomy of Peace, by the Arbinger Institute. A companion book to Leadership and Self-Deception.

May 2008

O Pioneer!, by Willa Cather, pg 169. “O Pioneer!” by Willa Cather, and I didn’t really care for how it ended. It didn’t bother me that some of the characters died–it was more the drama that seemed to take away from the statement the first part of the book was making about the character of pioneers, their ties to the land, and the vision they cherished. I did love the book, though. It taught the incorrectness (appropriate consequences perhaps?) of immorality, without graphic detail, no language that I could recall, and was an interesting study in human behavior/response to adversity/hard work/prosperity.

Enna Burning, by Shannon Hale, approx 270 pages. A follow-up with the tale of Goose Girl, with one of the characters from that book. Interesting dialogue about personal will-power, “victimization”, accountability. It also addresses guilt over misdeeds and the role that can play in our lives, healthy or otherwise. Great young adult book, with a tiny insinuation of some romantic, adult overtures that are open to individual interpretation.

June 2008

River Secrets, by Shannon Hale, pg 290. Alright, but definitely not as good as the other two in this “series”. It was nice to see the drawing together of Enna and Finn, but the story wasn’t as meaningful. A coming of age book for “Razo”, the main character, and how he found his own place, but not in a transforming way–rather, by way of a realization of his inherent qualities.

My Antonia, by Willa Cather, pg 228. Not as good as “O Pioneer!” by a long shot in terms of prarie/pioneer imagery, but I felt like the last look at Antonia with her family made it worth reading this time. I loved the image of her and her glowing, healthy family at the end. Her strength, vivacity, and passion for her family produced such a marvelous home environment.

The Good Earth, by Pearl S. Buck, pg 260. A fair book, although not as good as “Wild Swans” about Chinese society. The portrayal of Chinese actions was accurate, if you didn’t mind the Christian overtones with relation to temperance, fidelity, chastity, following good examples, idleness, pride, ingratitude...these weren’t spelled out, per se, but strongly hinted at, whereas I don’t know that any of the characters would have been troubled with such thoughts, or the negative outcome as dramatically depressing. (Quinn said the book should have ended halfway through.) Definite adult themes, particularly in the last part of the book, that were dwelt upon too much.

July 2008

Common Sense, by Thomas Paine pg. 58 less commentary. Amazing, powerful. Great expression of phrases of freedom.

The Voyage of Patience Goodspeed, by Heather Vogel Frederick, pg 213. A great young adult read (recommended to me by Tova), about a girl who loves mathematics and her adventure on the high seas on a whaling ship. Meaningful comments about family relationships, friendship, determination, along with a seemingly accurate portrayal of life/terminology would be like aboard a whaling vessel.

Five Little Peppers and How they Grew, by Margaret Sidney, pg 276. Originally I thought it too slow, boring and sappy for the kids to enjoy, but they implored me to keep reading it. While it is slow, the strong messages of love and joy in simplicity/poverty are neat, and provide great discussion. The kids drew their own conclusions that wealth was not everything and can in fact be limiting, although that was not clearly presented.

Princess: the real life story of women in Saudi Arabia, very graphic, depressing book...I was unable to get much further than pg 50 of it.

A wrinkle in Time, an interesting commentary on a socialistic society.

August 2008

1776, by David McCullough. Excellent and inspiring!

The Real Thomas Jefferson, by a bunch of people. Long, fabulous collection of source material to review Jefferson’s remarkable life. Skimmed, absorbed, devoured...fabulous.

Founding Mothers, by Cokie Roberts. Poorly organized and written, almost tabloid fashion. Interesting quotes about these amazing women, but told in the light of “the founding fathers were pathetic and needed the women to keep it all together. It would have been better told, I believe, with less condescension in the accounts of the men. Many lines like, “the women did all the work to keep it all running, balancing everything because they didn’t know better and it was tradition for them to be repressed.” Perhaps I am coming across a bit strong, but I feel that these vibrant amazing women knew exactly the sacrifice they were making, and they chose to do so.

A Tale of Two Cities, by Dickens. Amazing, powerful flowing read about a sweeping time, that ends remarkably filled with hope, despite the tragic circumstances of the novel. Characters quick, real, and many searching thoughts about personal responsibility in society, the power of one, how do we respond in the face of tragedy, perilous times...does it bring out our best? The role of God, and how, unfortunately, easily He can be replaced, etc. Amazing book.

September 2008

The Last Lecture, by Randy Pausch. A quick, nice read about a man and his last reflections before dying of cancer at a somewhat young age. Not profound, per se, but not a waste of time.

October 2008

The Seer and the Sword, Victoria Hanley, pg 320 (approx). Fabulous fantasy book, with great atypical plot varying from the “hero-quest” outline. Engaging, noble characters, wonderful concepts of peace/war and the importance of peace, clean. Good young adult/adult read.

Love Comes Softly, by Janette Oke, pg 237. Enjoyable love story, not your typical “romance”, but about development/ relationship building. The man reminded me a lot of Quinn, with his patience/forbearance. Very clean, and simple.

Tuesdays With Morrie, by Mitch Albom, pg 192. Similar to “The Last Lecture”, about a dying man imparting wisdom to those coming afterwards, with a detailed depiction of his slow deterioration with the ALG disease.

The Illiad, by Homer, pg 630. Interesting themes of war, fate, and honor. It was a great documentation of family histories/geneology, theology/folklore/tradition, knowledge (anatomy, culture), and fabulous imagery. (Akhilles was a whiner.)

The Communist Manifesto, by Karl Marx. Interesting read, in light of how he plays on people’s fears of inadequacy and that other’s (the “leaders/nobility/upper classes/etc.) are seeking to take advantage of them, and uses twisted logic to justify why he (and other self-proclaimed “sympathetic” authorities) should decide what is best for everyone.

Hamlet, by Shakespeare. The best read yet! I think I developed a better understanding of the greatness of Hamlet in his cautious desire to do what was right, torn between his ties to the throne, his mother, and his dead father crying for revenge. He must examine certain absolutes in his life and decide if they are based in truth and what his actions should be in relation to them.

The Naming, Allison Cronin pg 456 (about). Good book, probably not worth reading again, although has an interesting twist on the usual fantasy set-up, and most of the “bad guys” aren’t too dark. No real moral/lesson..

Healer’s Keep, approx 350 pages, by Victoria Henley. Not as good as “The Seer and the Sword” (it’s precursor), but still an excellent read. Too much surreal magical imagery in the end with little logic. The typical “my obscure magic trumps your obscure magic by hitherto unknown magical laws.”

November 2008

The Light of the Oracle, approx 350 pages, by Victoria Henley. Better than Healer’s Keep and only very loosely related. I liked the themes of integrity and honor in the face of peer pressure that were well presented.

Princess Academy, 314 pages, Shannon Hale. Again, a wonderful read, and I enjoyed even moreso the themes of family,community, and the power of knowledge in these pages..

The Riddle, Allison Cronin. Didn’t finish...too much the classic quest, skeptical hero in the face of overwhelming odds discovering their powers as the only miraculous way to save the world. The characters were alright, but the author spent too much time describing things in mysterious, cryptic ways. A great deal of repetition in the thought processes and actions of the characters.

The Apology, by Plato (10 pages). Wonderful account of Socrates “defense”. It seems more like his chance to bear his final witness of the truth of what he sought to do...there is nothing “apologetic” about it ☺. Fabulous quotes, and situation similar to Abinadi’s final moments...powerful.

Ella Enchanted, by Gail Larson Levine, pg around 350. Great story (better than “Fairest”) that is nothing like the movie. The heroine is genuine, the prince real, and the story engaging. I loved her integrity and the sincerity of the main characters. There are definitely some lacking characters, but they are never put forth as admirable. Seeking the underlying goodness in people seems to be an emphasis of Levine, as well as the emptiness of pride and vanity and position.

The Hiding Place, by Corrie Ten Boom, pg 220.Amazing, life-changing book each time I read it. Powerful concepts of forgiveness equaling peace, forgiveness that comes only from God, the power of one, of love, of prayer, of faith. Favorite (of many) “Christ has died for them, dare I demand more?” We must forgive...what more can we exact/demand for vengeance?

December 2008

Reviving Ophelia: saving the selves of our adolescent girls, Mary Pipher, PhD pg 293. Great book for a glimpse into how horrific the teenage years can be. The first 3/4ths is sometimes disturbing, and self-aggrandizing on the part of the author, however the final 1/6th is redeeming for the book and very enlightening.

Two from Galilee-mediocre fictitious book about Mary and Joseph. I felt a bit uncomfortable with the endless focus on consummating the marriage ☹

Plato’s Republic-fascinating account of “what is justice?” and is it worth it to have it in society.

The Book Thief (½-way through) fictitious story about Germans and Jews in Germany in WWII.

January 2009

Multiple Intelligences-insightful, albeit long-winded treatise on different learning styles in children and how we can increase the learning capacity of an individual by teaching them in their unique style.

The Apple-Pip Princess, fabulous children’s book about what someone can do to restore a country with just a little seed!

Aristotle-Politics book 1 and Ethics book 1-interesting insights into the purpose of society, purpose of man, and how they should interact.

Plutarch’s Lives, Pontilus and Numa (I think). A great compare and contrast of the tyrannical socialistic government that intrusively dictated the lives of the subjects and a ruler that sought to educate the people and inspire them to be better.

February 2009

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society, approx 260 pages. Enjoyable historical fiction, in the style of letters back and forth. It is a speculation of what it might have been like on the Channel Islands during WWII under the occupation of the Germans.

Locke Treatise on Civil Government. Interesting presentation on society, it’s purpose, Natural Law/state of Nature, what is “just” or “right” within societies: parental rights, slavery, conquest, forms of government, etc.

The Hero and the Crown, by Robin McKinley, approx. 300 pages. Not as good as I remember it being: too ethereal and mystic and nature in its conclusion...the usual fantasy “cop-out”. Even the characters didn’t really change or develop. Going to D.I.!

God’s Smuggler, by Brother Andrew and the Merrills. Approx 350 pages. Fantastic read about a gentleman “called” to deliver Bibles behind the Iron Curtain. Completely without soliciting funds or sustaining a job, this man goes out on faith and the Lord provides a way for him to do His work. It reminds me a great deal of Corrie Ten Boom’s story in “The Hiding Place”. The Merrills helped him print and publish it, but it is a narrative of his story. He experienced WWII first-hand in Holland, as well as military experience in Dutch Indonesia. His travels have taken him throughout Eastern Europe, Russia, China, and even Cuba...always delivering Bibles and sharing “God’s greetings from Holland” ☺.

Bastiat’s Essay on “The Law”. Amazingly readable and relevant to today’s issues and arguments against socialism. Highly recommended to anyone who will try it ☺. Approx. 45 pages in my copy.

March 2009

Till We Have Faces, C.S. Lewis. Excellent, thought-provoking book about what it takes to understand our divine heritage/religious perception of God...how we cannot identify our God and His role in our lives and the world around us until we know ourselves. (See notes in “Til we have faces” notes)

Aristotle: Politics

The Boy in the Striped Pajamas, by Boyne. Fabulous and powerful. Excellent book about how we can support fences around us, that separate us from those others may see as “not equal” or even “not human”; how society can seek to justify terrible things.

The Ordinary Princess-one of my favorite books of all time!!

April 2009

Plato’s Republic

Machievelli: The Prince An interesting political mind-set basically embodying “the end justifies the means” and what one must do to maintain power (ruthlessly, at times, if necessary).

Tiger Rising, by Kate DiCamillo A young adult book that doesn’t really say much, but has great potential for learning about life, relationships, stereotypes, mourning, loss, friendship, responsibility, family.

May 2009

The Wonder of Boys, by Michael Gurian, pg 265 notes on this in the “parenthood” notes section. Interesting, but has some ideas that I definitely don’t agree with. However, I think it was worth the read and the perspective it had into boy-ness ☺.

Fairest, by Gail Carson Levine. Alright fantasy book about the role of beauty verses other talents and inner beauty.

Red Scarf Girl, autobiography by Li Ji Liang (?). Emotion-stirring account of a girl who lived through the Cultural Revolution at ages 11-14. It captures her belief in communism and frustration at trying to be her best in a system that doesn’t accept her because of her ancestor’s place as landowners.

The School Story, by Andrew Clements. Nice story about the process of getting a work published, role of an agent and editor, and a little theme about friends. Too much bossiness and not very real relationships compared to other Clements’ stories I have read.

June 2009

Door in the Wall (listened to) middle age time frame great book about responsibility, coming of age, the vale of learning...young adult book. Many references to God and faith in Him.

Around the Great Horn Spoon (listened to) the book behind Bullwhip Griffeth movie, fun book about the gold rush environment.

Mao’s Last Dancer, Good book...very much like “Wild Swans”, “Red Scarf Girl”, and “The Good Earth” by Buck. I didn’t finish reading it right now, but it had neat themes of family and loyalty.

Red Sails to Capri, a fun adventure book about three men who come to an island and challenge a long-standing superstition, and the courage of a young family in supporting them. (Young adult/late reader chapter book).

Do Hard Things, by Alex and Brett (?). Approx. 240 pgs. An amazing, paradigm shifting book about the misuse/mistreatment of the “teenager”, and how actively doing hard things by choice can be powerful and produce amazing results in this age group that has been severely “dumbed down” and underestimated.

Three Cups of Tea, I read about 1/3 of it before stopping, knowing I will read it later for a book club. A neat book about the determination and ability of one man to make a difference in the lives of rural Afghanistan by creating schools for children, particularly young girls. Highly recommended by Niesha Richardson.

Chasing Vermeer, by Blue Balliett. Re-read this fantastic book for a youth group I am doing in the fall.

Messenger, by Lois Lowry. A great book that wraps up the trilogy begun with “The Giver” and talks about the harmful effects of arrogance, it’s twin sister disdain, and bigotry.

July 2009

Against the Pollution of I: by Jacques Lusseyran. Fabulous book about the role of sight in our lives, the pollution of distraction, and finding our inner, true selves. (Notes in “Random Book Notes”)

So you want to raise a Boy? by W. Cleon Skousen. Unfinished, but a fascinating read!

A Summer to Die, by Lois Lowry. An interesting young adult book. Some of the themes are more adult (strong feminist, not so strong moralistic), but it also has a touching way to depict what it is like to lose a sibling to a slow death. It is also an interesting sibling portrayal, has meaningful relationships, a great message about beauty, and depicts well the process and passion for photography.

A letter to Mrs. Roosevelt, by C. Coco De Young. A quick youth fiction about life in the Great Depression, but the story line was lacking of content, character development, and good qualities/examples. The ending was a trifled contrived and basically “big brother (or sister in this case) will bail you out, and life will be perfect, despite your irresponsibility in borrowing.)

Book of a Thousand Days, by Shannon Hale. pgs=305. A decent read, but lacking in real content. Decent enough love story, with an idea of value based on internal ability vs. society recognition. Safe ☺.

August 2009

Mere Christianity: skimmed it again...fantastic!

When Bad Things Happen to Good People, a rabbi. Alright book. Very thought-provoking with some definite truths mired amongst some blatant fallacies about God and His “inability” to take care of people or prevent bad things from happening and how we should “forgive Him” for not doing anything to prevent bad things from happening...as though we were entitled to a life free from pain and suffering in order to make us better...

Reaching for Sun, by Tracie Vaughn Zimmer, pg. 182. Wonderful book with a great insight into the mind of people with handicaps. Written in poem form. Great young adult book recommended by Tova. I loved it.

September 2009

Lincoln, from the Landmark series...hard reading for Knights of Freedom, but pretty succinct.

The Bean Trees, by Barbara Kingsolver. An interesting book...not much plot but more of an anthropologic (?) work, a statement of existence.

October 2009

Reviewed “The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society”...enjoyed the letter form and reality of the characters.

November 2009

The Road Less Traveled, by M. Scott Peck. 316 pgs. Amazing book. Difficult read. Life changing. Of course I don’t agree with everything in it, but for the most part, quite the book!

Our Town, by Thornton Wilder. 120 pages. Quick, delicious read to capture some rather profound thoughts about life, death, love, youth, innocence, “small town mentality”, appreciation.

The Cellist of Sarajevo, by Steven Galloway 250 pgs. Loved it...a lot like the Book Thief. Great tones of ownership of attitude and action despite oppressive government.

The Hunger Games, pg. 350? by Collier. Interesting and engaging, although a little too much “Lord of the Flies” for me. The main character started out seeming to want to protest the dictator government that created the terrible situation, but seemed to go along with it too far into the book for my taste. I didn’t finish it with the ongoing “kids killing kids”.

The White Giraffe, pg. 190 by Lauren St. John. Alright older child read, although the characters were a bit too mean and vindictive than I thought needed to be. The resolution too contrived and the main character seemed to do a lot of justification of bad behavior (disobedience, deception, etc.).

The Battle of Britain, by Quentin Reynolds, Landmark book series, 177 pgs. I liked it. Supposedly the author was an American war correspondent in Great Britain. Some great accounts of heroism. Some dishonesty (the Americans lying about flight experience to get in, but it was acknowledged), and even one reference to a Mormon from Utah in it ☺. It was great to see the courage of Churchill and others in the beleaguered city of London.

Tuck Everlasting, by Natalie Babbitt, pg 139. Interesting but not much to it. I wonder, though, if the ending would have been the same...would the woman have killed the man, without having stepped outside into their timeless existence...could her feelings about the sanctity of life have been somewhat jaded after seeing her family’s own inability to die? However, they still seemed emotionally invested in others...but how deep was it? They left Winnie reluctantly, yet, how long did they wait to come back for her? What was their response? Was their life as meaningful, living forever? “You can’t have living without dying, ...You can’t call it living, what we got. We just are, we just be, like rocks beside the road...I want to grow again, to change.” (pg 64)

January 2010

Archimedes and the Door of Science, by Jeanne Bendick. 135 pgs. Amazing book. Great Math Classic!

Parenting the Ephraim's Child, by Talmadge and Theler: 237 pages. Great book, but I skimmed through most of it (repetitive of other books I've read like “Raising your Spirited Child”, and “Parenting with Love and Logic”.) It has some good concepts but I don't always liked their application. It was too much of “this” is the right way to do something with your child, and I don't believe in universal specifics, other than the 10 commandments, and even then God has had instances of times where we are asked to act outside of those parameters.

Just my Nature. Wonderful personality book.

Three Cups of Tea, wordy...didn't finish it. Many others have found it amazing.

February 2010

Left to Tell. Amazing book about a Rwandanese woman's story of survival from the Holocaust.

March 2010

Mrs. Mike a silly romance with very little meaning. A woman leaves her home in Boston to the rugged Canadian frontier, marries a “manly man”, and has all sort of interesting experiences. However, most of the situations seemed unrealistic and the character development shallow for the most part.

April 2010

The Help, started out great, with a little swearing. However, the language and the content (at times) was horrific, so I stopped. It was about “the help”, or the African-American people who worked for pittance right before the time of the Civil Rights Movement. It was interesting to get it from their perspective (at least according to this historical fiction). Decent book without that, interesting, but not worth finishing with the garbage in it.

The Kidnapped Prince, by Olaudah Equiano (adapted by Ann Cameron). Wonderful young adult work about this man, taken from his home in Africa, and the life he leads as a slave seeking to be honorable.

1984, by George Orwell. Amazing and thought-provoking broken book. I will definitely have to read it again someday, skimming over the sensual parts, although I think that even that played a part in stressing the importance of human relationships, even those based upon physical feelings at first, when allowed to develop into feelings of deeper attachment.

Freakanomics, by Stephen B. Leavitt, approx. 250 pages. Interesting, albeit random information that he is trying to connect through studies and observation. His observations are also merely opinion seeking to displace “conventional wisdom”, but it does help you to think outside the box and look for alternate connections besides the one in front of you.

May 2010

The Element- A wonderful book about “how finding your passion makes a difference”

Christlike Parenting- I didn't finish this book but loved some of the practical advice and perspective on more agency-based, liberating parenting by calmly and lovingly stating rules and expectations without threats and bullying.

June 2010

The Lost Prince by Frances Hodgenson Burnett. A wonderful book about service-oriented leadership, true nobility, with some great characters with strong values.

The Phantom Tollbooth, by Norton Juster, a fable-like story with so many applications on different levels.

July 2010

The Book Thief, by Markus Zusak. A book about WWII Germany from more of a German perspective. It was fiction, and while it was an interesting perspective with “Death” as the narrator and the writing style was very visual and metaphoric, the crass words and treatment of people in the book was too crude. I stopped before the end, with the swearing getting worse and worse.

Les Miserables

A Single Shard, a neat book about a Korean young man who becomes apprentice to a potter...a coming of age book with good moralistic messages about integrity, hard work, apprentice-ship, and trust.

August 2010

The Last Waltz, an alright historical romance...not worth reading again, but clean.

Weight of Glory, C.S. Lewis. Wonderful, as all Lewis's are, but some of the lectures were dry and non-applicable. There were a few that were amazing.

Carry On, Mr. Bowditch, Leetham. Wonderful book with many great lessons. A good young adult read about the value of self-driven education and it's benefit on the world around them.

Charlie's Monument, by Blaine Jorgenson. Awesome book.

September and October 2010

Across Five Aprils, Irene Hunt. Wonderful!!! I loved it. She is great storyteller, and it touches on principles of responsibility, hard work, family loyalty, political issues around the time of the Civil War, covers simply an outline of the progression of the war and the mood of the populace, love, and is beautiful to read.

Christlike Parenting by Dr. Glenn Latham (I believe). Amazing, life-changing book. Now if I could only parent without thinking about how much I am probably not doing right it would be even better :). However, the main line of “parent as Christ would parent” is a powerful and simple message that is surprisingly easy to apply. Also, his advice about preparing for situations by role-playing or rehearsing ahead of time what you can do and say is remarkably powerful.

The Mysterious Benedict Society , a fun read about kids with talents who use them together to make a difference. The kids actually treat each other respectfully and pass that along to other people.

The Nazi Officer's Wife, by Helen Beer?. A decent book about an Austrian Jewish woman who lives during the holocaust partly on a farm in Germany and partly as the wife of a Nazi officer who is aware of who she is. It is a decent story, but I am not sure what the point is, other than to uncover a part in history where people allowed themselves and others to be dehumanized. It is amazing how when you allow yourself to dehumanize someone, you become dehumanized.

Driven, by Larry H. Miller, an autobiography. Really a pretty engaging, and remarkable book about how he came to be where he is at. While I don't agree with his “abandon the family to provide for them” philosophy, he has a lot of great messages about determination, philosophy, hard work, etc.

The Crucible, by Arthur Miller: disturbing how people can let their prejudices run away with them, not to mention superstition. The Salem Witch trials was surely a refining process...to see who would act according to natural laws and who would act like the natural man :).

Miracles on Maple Hill, nice youth book about how living on the land can heal a family.

The Kidnapped Prince, by Olaudah Equiano. Wonderful book about the value of freedom and the horror of the slave trade.

November 2010

The Alchemist, by Paulo Couhlo

Flatland, a great read, even the second time, about dimensions, not to mention a great political satire—one of the best I've read!

All Mimzy were the Borrogoves (a short story)

Three against Hitler, an interesting true story about some LDS youth in Nazi Germany, their resistance to Hitler, and the consequences of that...definitely an “older than 12” kind of book, but not graphic at all.

Papa's Wife, a charming book about a Swedish couple, a minister and his wife, that come to America with their eight children.

January 2011

Poisonwood Bible, by Kingsolver. Interesting perspective on Africa and foreign involvement.

The Lost Prince, by Frances Hodges Burnett. Amazing book about the characteristics of a true leader.

February 2011

The Wonderful Wizard of Oz, by Frank Baum. Each of the characters is insistent of what they need from the Wizard, but each already has those characteristics to a degree and demonstrates them: our greatest strength is our greatest weakness, perhaps? They each express fear at not having something particular that they feel keeps them from succeeding...perhaps they have compared themselves to what they think others possess, and find themselves lacking. Yet each has what it takes to work together to create a team.

The lesson from the “great” Oz: sometimes leaders deliberately deceive those they lead and create laws to perpetuate it (the green glasses). They also distance themselves from the people by perpetuating their appearance of great knowledge and wisdom.

Elantris, by Brandon Sanderson. Excellent book about government and different forms of leadership. Older youth.

Angel on the Square, by Gloria Whelan. A great book about the time of the transition from the tsars of Russia to Lenin/Stalin. Young adult.

Spring/Summer 2011

The Princess Academy

Trails to Testimony

The Evolution of Culpernia Tate: too many taking of the Lord's name in vain, cool mentor/child relationship with Grandfather and granddaughter, neat teaching how to be a naturalist and the concept of evolution (minimally)

Everyone Communicates, few connect- very effective and worth the read once

The Silence of God: wonderful

Norms and Nobility: hard to read, but incredible dissertation on classical education

The Power of Intention: Powerful and life-defining for me

The Story Teller's Daughter Quick read, but very good!

The Yearling (Quinn read aloud) wonderful, with many great lessons; childhood classic

Snow Treasure (Quinn read aloud) great story

The Great Turkey Walk (Quinn read aloud) funny, but not very deep. Quick read, youthful story

Summer of the Monkeys (Quinn read aloud) childhood classic

The Goose Girl wonderful!

Winter's Child- alright, but not much character development. Interesting retelling of “The Snow Queen”.


The Boy Knight- great book about the Crusades; I felt it was very historically accurate and well told, if hard to understand due to the archaic-type language.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

random thoughts

Tell the sisters to go forth and discharge their duties, in humility and faithfulness and the Spirit of God will rest upon them and they will be blest in their labors. Let them seek for wisdom instead of power and they will have all the power they have wisdom to exercise.’ -Sister Snow

In the book Daughters in My Kingdom, we read about Sister Hedwig Biereichel, a woman in Germany who suffered much sorrow and deprivation during World War II. Because of her love and charitable nature, and even in her own great need, she willingly shared her food with starving prisoners of war. Later, when asked how she was able to “keep a testimony during all [those] trials,” she replied in effect, “I didn’t keep a testimony through those times—the testimony kept me.”

Ezekiel 20:26: "That I might make them desolate, to the end that they might know that I am the Lord."

it's never too late to be all you can possibly be.

I have lots of thoughts, feelings, and emotions going through my head right now. The strongest is, I know my Father lives, and loves me to. I know that He knows what is best for me and that sometimes the answer is lovingly, "no", because "yes" is not what is best. I know that He has in mind what is best for me and those around me, even in seemingly trying times...that those trials will be truly for our good. I guess the key is just remembering, knowing, and trusting that He truly does love me.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

"mommy" and the power of words

I went to an Relief Society meeting for my church a couple nights ago and had some time to catch up with an old friend. She is amazing, not the least reason being, even her 17 year old still calls her "mommy",...out of choice.

My first thought was, wow. Why? We talked about it, this term "mommy" and how my friend always wants to be mommy, to kiss away the hurts, to snuggle, to accept, to love. As I listened to her, I realized I was watching someone whose gift was to nurture on an intimate and deep level...a safe level.

So, I brought home this concept and shared it with my oldest daughter. "Wouldn't it be cool if I was soft, gentle, and loving enough to me called 'mommy'?" I said.

She, wonderful, was game to try, and it is amazing how challenging it has been to live up to that appellation of "mommy"! It is very different from "mom", from "mother", and far removed from "I hate you!" (my now 3 year olds favorite phrase lately...although, ironically, she says, "I hate you, mommy!").

And last night, confronted with a particular situation, I realized, I am not mommy, and I would have to do some major overhauls to become mommy.

Now, I know I love my children. I know they love me, and I know that I am trying hard to be a good mom and succeeding in many, many ways. I do realize that, so this isn't a "beat up me" session.

However, despite my appreciation of my friend's gift, I don't know that I will ever be worthy of..."mommy."

The power of a word.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hzgzim5m7oU&noredirect=1

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

motherhood

Okay, I cannot be done for the morning. The following has been on my mind, and I feel that I should share it/articulate it, whether for my own reflection or for others, I do not know.

The other day, a woman spoke with me about how frustrating it is to be limited by being a mom, not able to fulfill her "element" (Robison's book, I think is the author, ..."The Element".) I briefly share with her my conviction that no woman can find complete satisfaction pursuing personal development outside of her role as a wife and mother. (For those unable to do either, I know that the Lord compensates, but that is for another day!)

Brushing that off, she went on to describe an example, how she used to love cooking, but now it seemed as though her kids were always getting in the way of making it work like it used to, and now she had no delight in something she used to love. "How, Mary? How do you be a mom and still have time to be yourself and find your element??"

This has been on my mind lately, and I wish that I could have articulated my reply that night, but here it is.

I truly believe that we, as women, are first and foremost nurturers, creators, bringers of light and comfort to our families. This is our primary element. The beautiful part of this is that "nurturing" can look different to each woman; each woman has the ability to create sometime uniquely hers..."her element". For instance, my sister-in-law in Florida has the amazing gift to enjoy her children. I watched in awe as she spent a good amount of time (it may have been only 5 minutes, but it seemed like a long, long time :)...) "nibbling" her plump little 7 month old...and enjoying it! "I thought, 'Wow.' That's all I could say was, 'wow.'" (as quoted from "Lily's Purple Plastic Purse") She is an amazing nurturer! I felt so inadequate, watching her. Yet, I have come to realize that my children need my kind of nurturing...my personal element.

How can it be that we can truly "find ourselves", "have 'me' time" and enjoy progression while being a mom? When we find ways to develop our talents and "find our element" while serving our family, we will find joy unspeakable.

Now, I have the unique opportunity to exercise many talents while teaching my children in a homeschooling environment. My knowledge of science, history, math, grammar (I can spell it right now!), and many other subjects has increased tremendously as I re-learn to teach them. However, it is more than that. When I increase my talent for playing the piano in order to bring peace to the home, as I use my talent for cooking to teach my children how to move past "failure" point, as I learn side-by-side with my kids how to paint scenery, build a chicken coop, and serve others, I am being a mom first and foremost and enjoying the sweet satisfaction of finding out more fully what my element is...and what it is not! (Thank goodness for electronically gifted friends!)

There is a way to increase our talents side-by-side with parenting. Yet perhaps even more significantly, the talents to snuggle, clean, beautify, laugh, read, serve, love, listen, accept, forgive, support, hug the unhuggable,...nurture are much, much, much more important talents than we realize.

The world (and Satan!) does not validate these talents, but they are essential to creation. To give the child the gift of knowing that they are loved, that they are of worth, that they matter is huge, and will give them the confidence to do anything they need to in this life.

The worth of souls is truly great in the sight of God, and there is no other capacity that we can make more of a difference than in the lives of our children or those we are called upon to nurture, to love, to support.

Now I just need to remember that in my own life, right? :)...on those days when I am pulling out my hair, frustrated by that "one more mess!" that I need to clean up, wanting some peace and quiet, confronted by all that I am not doing while being a mom. However, most of the time, I realize that, at the end of the day, if I have told each of my kids I love them, borne testimony to them, and hugged each of them, there is truly little else that matters as much or brings as much satisfaction and peace.

I am in my element!

hope

I have been "stuck" in 1 Nephi lately in the Book of Mormon..."stuck" because there have been so many incredible lessons in there for me for my time of life right now! It is incredible. I used to feel like it was a nice story, a fun and exciting way to begin a book of scripture to draw people in as they study the truthfulness of it all, you know, to give them something to keep them going through 2 Nephi :). Well, this amazing part of an amazing book has truly been the voice of God to me through the scriptures over the past few weeks and I would like to share a little of it with you.

Early this morning I had my typical once a month (and sometimes once a week!) moment of, "How in the world can I do all that I feel that God wants me to do?!" For those who know me well, they know that I have quite a few things going on, and, as I have prayed about what to let go, it's like I hear a little chuckle up in heaven and an answer, "You'll be fine, Mary. Remember, this is My work."

Well, I am always concerned though...am I doing what He wants me to do? I am fully aware that I am unable to do all that I do, and have seen His incredible, incredible enabling power make miracles in my life as things come together and He still gives me time to do, well, some laundry :). (Some weeks my house is definitely more clean than others, but I think that this is just because He knows how soothing that is for my soul :)!) However, there are always those moments of doubt...

So this last week, I have run across a few gems in 1 Nephi that have been running through my mind in answer to my prayers.

Nephi knew that the Lord had commanded Lehi's family to retrieve the plates from Laban. However, he didn't see a way. In fact, their first two attempts to get them ended in perceived failure and life-threatening situations. (I can relate to the "failure" part :)!) Yet, as I learned from Edison when we studied him last year in my youth group, "failure" is an incredibly powerful learning tool of how not to do something! Through those two instances of "failure", Nephi learned (or I did, anyway) some great lessons:
1) From his first attempt: Just because I know something is the will of God, doesn't mean that others always do--but that doesn't mean it ceases to be the will of God.
2) From his second attempt: the angels are on hand to step in when it is really bleak, but in the meanwhile, they are around us, supporting us, and God is always, always aware of where we are at.

So...the first two attempts were not a waste of time.

Well, the third attempt has been intensely on my mind this morning as I look at what I need to do to get ready for my kid's play, fix my chicken coops rapidly disintegrating roost, share vision of my youth group with those incredible youth who are currently transitioning into adulthood, rotate our clothing in the house so my babies are no longer running around in shorts, take care of my callings, doing enough of that previously mentioned laundry to keep everyone in socks...preferably matching ones at that...and minimize the stink caused by a 2, almost 3, year old who keeps putting on panties when my back is turned, supporting my husband with wise use of resources and a joyful countenance, and just plain being a mom who loves her kids--doesn't neglect them!-- and teaches them (I do homeschool, you know :)... and we need to do that every once in a while).

So...back to the third attempt.

As I cast my thoughts heavenward this morning, the scripture in 1 Nephi 3:7 again went through my mind, that I know that the Lord giveth no commandment unto the children of men, save He shall prepare a way for them to accomplish the thing which He hath commanded them. So I pled, "I know there is a way--wilt thou please show me how?" What I had read in 1 Nephi 4:6 ran through my mind at that point, "And I was led by the Spirit, not knowing beforehand the things which I should do..." and it was probably a good thing for Nephi, too, this "not knowing"! Because what was about to be asked to do in order to do the Lord's will? Slay a man....kill someone!

Okay, okay...I know that I don't need to kill anyone to get done what the Lord wants :), but it gave me pause to think. Sometimes, the Lord answers us with unconventional answers, ways of doing things that may seem impractical and unrealistic, and, maybe, just wrong to others. Now, I am not saying that I am going to go and violate any of the commandments at this point :). It just struck me, as I plead that He would lead me as He did Nephi to accomplish His work, that I should be ready for any answer He might give me.

Perhaps the answer will be to "let it go" on some things, and "charge forward" on others.

Do I trust Him enough? I must, and I will, for He has never let me fall before...He has just allowed me to learn a great deal, and shown me the miraculous wonders of His hand that supports us as we imperfectly seek to do His will...

...the cracked pot, remember?

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

My day--warning...random!

You know, it is interesting how much Satan can work to try and make you feel of no worth. For the past few days, I have had a hard time feeling like I am doing anything :)! From one mess to another, it seems, I work my way through my day.

Today, however, I decided that I am not going to keep being the grumpy, pouty mom! I am going to put a smile on, love my kids, show them my approval of them, and just clean up the messes.

You know, it's funny. I never run errands (okay, maybe once every couple of weeks), I only have one child in one sport (and it's almost over), my house is dirty in all the corners, my kids keep me "in" on all the bad things that all their siblings are doing, I almost never iron (sorry, honey), and my yard is full of weeds. I also haven't finished a book in a couple of months. (I have started a bunch, though!)

Then I go to church or somewhere else and people tell me how wonderful they think I am...

"Really?" I wonder. All I can see is all the amazing things they are all doing :).

The other day I opened a bottle of the "bread and butter pickles" that I had bottled last month, and it knocked my tastebuds off...with it's mushy fiery-ness! Ahhhh! Somehow, I messed up the recipe. Awesome. And how many bottles do I have of it? :)

I miss my family. I have many far away that I don't take the time to visit or talk to. In fact, I have some coming in this weekend to town that I haven't seen in some time, but do I visit them? Do I call them up to tell them how much I care, how much I miss them, how I wish we spoke more? Of course, they never call or anything either, but it takes two, and I should just be the one to start, right?

Anyway, sorry for the random ramblings. I think the reason why I started all this was that--weird thing--even with all these "off" feelings, I still feel peace at the end of the day. I snuggled some, I worked some, I loved some, I read some, and I bore my testimony to my children...and I think most of them were even listening :).

Hopefully, all the little things that I did do will change who I am for the better more than all the little things I didn't do will leave me lacking...

On a slightly different note....I'd like to send out a thank you to all my hero-friend women whom I think of as I work through my day, those whom I saw yesterday and those whom I haven't seen for years; the women that shared their insights, their fears, their shortcomings, their successes. Their voices whisper in my head in my head, during the day, at night...shaping me and helping me in ways they can never know.

Another random thought...today, I figure I have my PhD in family science with all the discussion groups I've participated, parenting/childhood development books I've read, labwork I have performed (every day, some nastier than others), and exams I've had...oral and written :). I have defended thousands of theses (sp?) on various subjects from how many hours is it "ethical" to spend on the computer in a day to why I have the right to say when it is time for bed.

And right now, two of my munchkins are splashing in the bath (or I should say, splashing all the water out of the bathtub)--driving my dear husband to distraction, poor man!--while our choir music is blasting through the house, dinner is mostly cleaned up, my 10 year old is playing with features of the power point presentation he is making on birds (with sound effects, of course), and my baby is out "jumping" on the tramp with her 13 year old brother.

Maybe I should go?

...and maybe, tonight, I just needed to take a moment to share that I, too, am human. Pedestals are dangerous places to fall from and I want to keep off of as many as I can. Hopefully this email helped me get there :)...

Cool quote from a Cambodian

A few years ago I read a powerful account by a Cambodian woman of the take-over of the Khmer Rouge in Cambodia. Here is a quote from the end of her book. I came across it again today, and it was too incredible not to share!

To Destroy You is No Loss: “Repeatedly, the Khmer Rouge told us that we were insignificant, that to destroy us was no loss. Revenge in the Western sense can be a destructive force in the life of a wronged person, but for Cambodians revenge has a different meaning. By our actions, by what we can accomplish, we intend to show that we do have significance. When we have proven the Khmer Rouge wrong in their assessment of our culture and of us as individuals, our revenge will be complete.” pg 286

Monday, August 29, 2011

I am enough...

I have been struggling to get "ready" for this new year, feeling like, if I just "did a little more", I would be what I need to be. However, as I step back and look at it, my expectations of what I need to do to be "ready", is huge. For the past few weeks, I have silently despaired and outwardly stressed out in response.

I know that Heavenly Father wants me to be doing this right now, but I also know He doesn't want me to live my life in a constant state of panic, stress, or feelings of "not-enoughness"! So how can I do what I need to do, and still have peace? I need to trust, trust that what I have to offer is exactly what He needs and knew I was capable of.

Yesterday in Relief Society, I felt like the following closing statement from the recent LDS General Conference talk by D. Todd Christofferson was spoken directly to me, and it pierced me to the very core:

"May God sustain you in your striving to meet His high expectations and grant you a full measure of the happiness and peace that naturally follow."

If I can embrace with faith His chosen path for me, truly following His spiritual guidance, I can trust that it is enough. I am enough.

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Vengeance is mine, thus saith the...mom?

Yesterday, once again, I had a situation in my home where one child took it upon themselves to be the judge and the one who punishes. Something was not right, and, by golly, they were going to make sure that the person in error was going to pay!

I was so frustrated! I knew the situation better, I knew the children involved better, and I knew the best way to teach/discipline them in such a way that it would be less likely to happen again. As in many cases before, I wish that the other kids would stay out of it. Their sense of "justice" and "punishment" tends to make things a whole lot worse--not to mention, there is absolutely no mercy or love involved.

As I fumed and stewed about what to do, I was struck by a thought. How much more must Heavenly Father, our God in Heaven, regret when we stick our oars in, "righting the wrongs" of those around us, when it is really none of our business? He knows the people involved better than we do, He knows the situations, and He knows the best way to teach them, yet, somehow, we seem to think He needs our help to enact His righteous justice.

Of course we need to judge righteously, but (as my incredible husband put it) we don't condemn. Very seldom in the history of the world does the Lord actually use people to step in as His divine hand of vengeance.

It made me think about how sometimes I probably make things a lot worse when I allow myself to judge, condemn, and punish. How do I "punish"? Shunning, excluding, snide comments, unkind thoughts, nights of planning out "what I should say or do" when I next interact with that person so I can "teach them a lesson" or "show them the right way."

Anyway, it helped me see a different perspective, because I could see first-hand in my parent mini-world how frustrating it might be for Heavenly Father to see us hurt each other, those whom He loves so dearly, and for whom He really knows what is best.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Cool thought from Tovacula

My darling daughter shared with me the following cool thought from her reading this morning: A Chinese paleotologist came to a conclusion about some fossils found in China. An American was upset by his conclusion, and this was the Chinese man's response: "In China we can criticize Darwin, and not the government. In America, you can criticize the government, but not Darwin."

Hmmm....food for thought....

Liberty and God

I just read a book called "The Silence of God" about an LDS family in Russia during the transition time from the Romanov's to the communists/socialists. It has made me think a great deal about the noble ideals of communism/socialism, and why it doesn't seem to work. One concept in the book really struck me: government and men do not have power to change men's hearts, only God does, and that kind of society can only work with people with changed hearts.

There are so many similarities between communism and the law of consecration, but with some fundamental differences.

I found a scripture that helped me remember what the essential one is: 2 Corinthians 3:17: "Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty."

In every socialistic society I have studied/heard about, there is an attempt to banish all traces of God from society. Why is that?

p.s. I realize I have used the terms "socialism" and "communism" seemingly interchangeably, but I recently learned that socialism is a political vehicle for communism, which is a economic ideal, so felt my use of them in this post probably worked all right :).

p.p.s. I also recently learned that "alright" is not actually a word, according to "Painless Grammar" author Rebecca Elliot...go figure! "Afterwards" is also not a word. Hmmm....

p.p.p.s. I also learned how to spell "grammar" with an "a" instead of "grammer" with an "e". Mary really is growing up! Maybe someday she will know what a "cavity" is, as well as not to get into cars with little old men strangers on 2nd North in downtown Salt Lake City? Stories for another day...

Mary's growing up...

Everyone, I have an announcement to make...

I have learned how to export a file in PDF format so I can send attachments that people can actually open! Woohoo for me!

Someday, when I am really cool I will be just like my friend, Marni, who seems to know how to do all those things in her sleep :).

Cutting my Hollyhocks

I have some purple mini-hollyhocks (I think that's what they are...) that grow next to my front porch. The first year they grew, I loved their purple blooms! In fact, as they grew older and older and decayed before my eyes, I refused to cut them, holding on to what I thought was my last chance to enjoy them for the year. Finally, they were such a huge eyesore, that I decided to finally cut them.

Lo and behold! I found a few weeks later (now well into fall) that they were growing again! I could have cut them back much earlier and actually had another set of beautiful blooms instead of watching the old ones wither, die, and then just look plain ugly for a while :).

So now, each year, as soon as they start withering, I cut them down at the base.

As I saw the regrowth happening now in my flower bed after cutting them back a few weeks ago, I was struck by an analogy. There have been times when I have felt "cut back", kind of like I had to start over again. It hurt, it was miserable, and it seemed like it was happening when I was doing my darn'd-est to keep on growing and doing my best.

It made me think about how there are seasons in our lives, seasons for growing, and seasons for starting over, or even just hibernating for a while :). Sometimes we cannot just keep growing, growing, growing, pushing ourselves to just "keep it up". When we do that, we can look just plain ugly like this hollyhock bush by my door.

It made me wonder, what seasons do I have? Do I keep pushing myself when I should be going back to basics?

And then, I thought, do I have faith when life seems to "cut me back"? When everything seems to drop out of the bottom, as it were? Do I see it as time to consider, time for regrowth, or do I whine and complain?

Then, --as so often seems to happen when I have something on my mind-- this morning I came across a scripture in 2 Corinthians 4 that seemed to teach me a little more about having faith in times of trial...
15 For all things are for your sakes, that the abundant grace might through the athanksgiving of many redound to the glory of God.

16 For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the ainward man is renewed day by day.

17 For our light aaffliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and beternal cweight of glory;

How cool is that! Now, I just need to learn from it and enjoy my seasons more, right?

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Funny!

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye."
~Miss Piggy~

Thanks, Peggy, for sharing this one!

Monday, August 8, 2011

The Great and Abominable...school?

After months of joking around about the junior high being built across the street, months of feeling just a bit miffed at the "great and spacious building" that replaced the idyllic view we had before of pasture and silo, months of grumbling to neighbors about all the hassle, noise, and dirt that has kicked up from the construction, I have come to a decision...

...but let me go back a little!

Last Sunday in church, we were taking the opportunity to introduce ourselves since we just split our ward. My neighbors took the chance to voice their extreme discontent about the junior high and I was able to hear how bitter and selfish it sounded. Sure, it has been a hassle, but the area really needs it and there really isn't a very good place for it.

So, my decision, stop grumbling and look for the good side! My kids have a sidewalk to ride and walk on instead of the side of the road; we have fields to play on; my kids can catch Seminary and Orchestra if we want to when they get to that age; and...well, that's about all I can think about for me, but the benefits to most of our community far outweigh my little inconveniences.

And isn't that what living in a society is all about? Tolerance of what is tolerable, finding the good in what we can, and picking our battles for those that really matter.

A little bit of Heaven


I went to Millhollow two weeks ago with my family: primitive camping, too! As I walked from the campground to the lake, as I watched my children play in the stream, as I sat and rubbed shoulders with my amazing extended Buchanan family, I thought, "This must be what Heaven is like." The meadows full of blooming flowers, the pines, the water, the people, the laughing, the living, the struggling, the back to basic feel of it all--it was incredible. I was heartbroken to get back home and was more depressed than I have been for a while, but I was glad for a glimpse of heaven that week.

Friday, April 8, 2011

"Why me?"

I have often thought, “Why do bad things happen to good people?” or “Why me?” This morning it dawned on me: that is the plan that we chose! Satan's plan is a life of ease and predictability, one of no “hitches” with a safe re-entry into heaven...exactly as we left it. We wanted to be tested, just as Kel does in his schooling :) (which I at first thought was a little crazy!) , wanted to be proven, to grow, to experience...and how can we do that if nothing ever goes wrong? Not only does God need to allow the consequences of the bad choices of our fellow man to take effect, to hold them accountable and hopefully teach them, but we need those experiences to prove ourselves, learn and grow...to feel the difference between the bitter and the sweet. We wanted that choice, with all the accountability that goes with it :). He could stop every bad thing from happening to every person if he wanted to, but that is not the plan we signed up for.
Of course that doesn't make it any easier...it doesn't make me say, "Bring it on!" but it reassures me of the love of God even in hard times...that while He may not take away the pain and suffering, I can still feel Him there, loving me and supporting me through my test.

charity never faileth!

I had a thought about charity. A couple weeks ago, in Relief Society, we had a lesson on Charity. In it, it said that in order to become Charitable, we need to learn more about Christ, who is the embodiment of charity. So I committed to read the whole New Testament, as kind of a personal commitment to Heavenly Father, with a prayer that He will help me become more charitable. It has been amazing how little snippets of the definition of “Charity” found in Moroni 7 (which I also read every day) float through my mind in different situations: “charity seeketh not her own”, “charity is not puffed up”, “charity beareth all things”. When I mentally chose to accept those definitions, it has been amazing the peace I feel.

I was struck this morning by something about charity. In all those definitions that feel so hard to do sometimes, not one of them is under the control of someone else. It doesn't say, “charity will not get hurt”, “charity will not have people say mean things to her”, etc. We each have complete control over whether we will have charity or not! And, charity will never fail! All things must fail, but charity never will! Think of that! Something that will never let us down, never “not work”--whether in parenting, relationships, friendships, callings, etc...it will never fail us.

However, this is daunting, because it can be so hard to have charity. So what a comfort it is that in Moroni, after listing all the things that charity is, outlining the hard path and setting the high standard, there is the verse of comfort: “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, pray unto the Father with all the energy of heart, that ye may be filled with this love, which he hath bestowed upon all who are true followers of his Son, Jesus Christ.” Charity can be a gift that God gives us, who are sometimes so lacking in being able to be charitable! But we have to want it, praying for all the energy of heart.


Saturday, January 8, 2011

Fundamentals of my parenting, self, and homeschooling

This posting is in response to Claudia :)...these personal fundamentals have come after years of studying and trying and failing...may you learn from my mistakes! (I would love to hear other people's "fundamentals"!) And you can just substitute "fundamental" for "ideal", as I am far from perfect at doing any of these...

-Read the Book of Mormon with your family every day. (Read Pres. Benson's promises on that...)

-Bear testimony often.

-You always have time for scripture study (even a verse!) and prayer. Do it every morning.

-Pray that you may be sufficient to do what needs to be done, that what little you can do, you may do, and then know that whatever you have to offer, if you follow your answer, will be enough...you will be enough, despite and sometimes even because of your imperfections (see the story about the "cracked pot" on this blog.)

-Hand in hand with that one, live by the Spirit. As you are "anxiously engaged in a good cause" (D&C 58:26-27) you may do everything you can and then stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the hand of the Lord as He completes His work, (D&C 123:17) which is what our children are :), as well as ourselves.

-You will never be "done". :) Enjoy the journey. The house will get messy again, so use the "clean up the room" time as a time to teach or bond, not just to try to maintain (although sometimes, for myself, I do it because I like it :)...)

-Each one of my children is a genius...it may just look different or unimportant to the rest of the world (i.e. Lily is a nurturer..an amazing one) (See "Parenting your Ephraim's Child" and Oliver DeMille's talk about the eighth key..."secure not stressed" and "genius mentality".)

-If we emphasize academics in Core phase, we are telling our children that that is what their self-worth is based upon. (Janine Bolon)

-Work is central to our happiness (see article on Family Work, BYU magazine Spring 2000). We can think and develop relationships while we work in some ways more satisfying than just by sitting and talking or thinking.

-My goal is to raise adults who know how to work, clean up after themselves, and take responsibility for their actions...adults that know how to love, be nice, and serve. Math, music lessons, and writing essays come second to that. My children know (or at least hear often!) that they have unique strengths and gifts and a unique mission to complete on this earth, even if they don't know what it is yet. They know that I have ones I am trying to fulfill, with God's grace.

-When my children are "going crazy"--more than usual--, it means they need to have their "love cup" filled (see "5 love languages for kids"). A friend once said, "when they are squabbling over little things, the best thing to do is grab a good book, and plop down on the couch and do some serious cuddling." I believe in this...

-Before all else, I am a wife and a mother. The only thing that will take me away from that calling is an edict (strong personal inspiration) from a God I know and trust, that what I am doing is His will. If it is His will, then I trust Him. (Prov. 3:5-6)

-Electronics or media is something only to be used in case of emergency, and, even then, only if it is wholesome and uplifting. (I am a "mean" mom :)...) I respect other people's inspiration for their own children's needs in this area. For me, electronics are very stimulating and distracting for my children, preventing them from finding that sacred quiet within that helps them define who they are. Once they know who they are, who their God is, what is truth or at least how to find out for themselves, then I trust them and the light of Christ that is within them to make that call.

-Hand in hand with that, though, my kids know why: I want them to know what life can be like without electronic addictions so that when they leave my house and can create their own home environment, they know what life can be like without it even if they choose to immerse themselves in it.

-My children will make mistakes (as I do) and that is alright. The key is to love them, let them learn from them, don't remove consequences or "save" them every time they fall. This may seem callous, (and, of course, must be done within reason), but let me give you an example.

One of my kids wanted to make money. They insisted they were ready to start working doing yard work at a young age. I offered my counsel, told them I could help them learn, and then they decided they were done with that and ready to go. They got hired to mow an incredibly hard lawn, huge and over-grown. They spent literally hours and hours mowing. They would call me on the cell phone, tell me how hard it was, and want me to finish it for them. I knew they were suffering, I knew it was hard, and I knew they weren't doing a very good job. I told them I would be happy to bring them water or food, but they would have to pay me for my time if I were to help them, in addition to the gas they were already paying to refill the mower. They finished it, paying me for the little I helped. It was a very real life lesson learned at a young age about: negotiation, finishing a job (they were so proud of themselves), and the realities of being accountable as a laborer, not to mention how it would be to work in that field their whole lives if they decided to not finish school :). The home is a safe place to learn about failure and trying again. We don't need to set them up to fail to learn this lesson, of course. We just need to offer support and not just bail them out when life gets hard.

-This goes hand in hand with being consistent and true to your word. I found that when I would back out of a punishment/consequence one time, it made it actually worse, and my kids respected me more if I followed through with the punishment/consequence. (Grounding is painful and used only in times of great emergency!)

-My children become what they are exposed to the most--through reading, electronics, people...and I want my kids face-to-face with greatness as often as possible, be it in books or people around them or media that enlightens and inspires. They need to feel something in order to want to be something.

-The power of positive parenting...if my kids feel happy or recognized when they do something, they will want to do it (i.e. church, work, service, scripture reading, math, etc.). (Read "Christlike Parenting"...cathartic, but good!)

-When I am stressed or upset, I try to let my children know, apologizing when I allow it to interfere with my relationship with them.

-I CHOOSE how I will react to something...my children cannot "make" me mad. Even though I allow myself to still fall into this trap, I never, never, never say that they "made" me mad, upset, or stressed. This puts undue blame on a child. No matter their actions, I am my own person and always, always, always have a choice in how I want to react (again, see "Christlike Parenting"...also, Corrie Ten Boom's "The Hiding Place")

-Similarly, I CHOOSE how I spend my time. I have time for whatever I feel is most important. If I don't "have time" for something, it is because it is not as important to me as what I am already doing...this makes me look at what I am already doing and deciding if it should be more important :)...

-My children need to see me smile, need to see me enjoying what I am doing, or why in the world would they ever choose to do that themselves? :) Sometimes, even a forced smile will work wonders in myself and my kids.

-Relationships are more important than things: sometimes you can say "no" to when someone wants to come over and visit, but let that be the exception. On the other hand, it is all right to let the answering machine field calls when making a memory, having devotional, or taking a nap :)...phone calls are not on par with physical visiting, just as emails and texting are a far from perfect mode of meaningful communication.

-When I am overwhelmed, it means I have lost my perspective and need to either: pray, snuggle with Quinn (my rock) or have one-on-one time with him, go to the temple, read my scriptures, or exercise/go on a walk. No matter how bad things seem, they can always be worse :). When Isaak died, everything literally ground to a halt, and then it eventually picked up again. I learned that all those things on our schedule are pretty much secondary to the essentials.

-Errands (and lunch :)! ) are a necessary evil, but I generally only do them (errands, that is!) once every week or two, unless I am already going out for one of my children's events.

-More is seldom better...simplicity, simplicity, simplicity. Again, pretty much only an edict from God will make me add something to my schedule, and I am quick to remove things. (See "Small and Simple Things" by Marjorie Hinckley)

-If my kids don't see me struggling, studying, allowing myself to be humbled, praying, loving, forgiving,...how in the world will they ever learn how to, or at least how to fail and keep trying :)?

-Dates with kids are fun. Dates with Daddy are essential. My husband comes before my kids, and, although it is hard to show this with a patient, easy-going husband and intense children, it is always worth it, and the kids actually seem to feel better knowing that our relationship is sacred and important.

-I have more wealth than the majority of the world's population. Many mothers feed their kids watered down rainwater and hope it will provide the illusion of being fed. I have no room to complain about not having enough, and thus rejoice vocally in my abundance.

I think that is all...those are some of the thoughts that drift through my head on a regular basis...oh! And one last one:

-There are many, many times that I do not know what to do, what to say, how to act as a parent, wife, or friend. I have learned to stop, say, "I am not sure what to say right now, but I love you", and then try my best. If I don't try, I don't learn--from my successes and my failures...




Saturday, December 4, 2010

Priesthood and Princesses :)

Just a couple random thoughts I would love to have your feedback, insight, etc. on...

It strikes me, as I listen to a talk by Elder Neil A. Anderson about being not offended, the essential role of men in the Gospel with their stewardship over the affairs of the church, not to mention the awesome responsibility that comes with bearing the Priesthood of God. Those women who cry out against the "unfairness" of not holding the priesthood need to gain a testimony of their own sacred role and powers as a woman, mother, and nurturer...it is not a priesthood problem! :) As he described the faith of a brother in having to publicly demonstrate his faith in Ukraine by being called to be branch president and registering the church at a time of religious disapproval, I envisioned the faith of the sisters, possibly for years before, waiting such an action. Were they frustrated that they needed a man to do these things? Are we sometimes to our own great power for spirituality, faith, and goodness that we don't realize the complementary capacity of these brethren acting in their sacred Priesthood office, the need of us women for the strength and surety that a priesthood holding man, confirmed in the mantle of the Priesthood, as he goes about his own directed work from His God? I pray that my heart will be soft when the temptation of "feminism" rears its ugly head, suggesting, insinuating a lesser role because I do not have the exact same role as the men around me. I pray that I will me reminded of the graciousness, the gentility and the sweet balm of Gilead that I can administer as a woman. "The errand of angels is given to women..oh, naught but the spirit's divinist tuition can give us the vision to truly succeed!"

And now onto princesses!...

I have also been struck by a passage in "The Princess Academy", where it describes their quarry-talk with which they communicate without using their voice...mind to mind and heart to heart. As I thought, "How cool!", I was struck by the main character, Miri's, observation. It was their shared memories that made such communication possible. How essential it is to spend time with each other, friends, families and neighbors, because it is through these shared memories, these shared experiences that we are able to communicate on an even deeper level...

...and that leads to the thought, "how much do I want that with others? Am I willing to pay that price?" Is this communication not the peak of humanity, the crowning moment of human interaction and achievement when one soul can truly communicate their message to another, be it through art, accomplishment, music, sports, writing, speaking, loving, serving, etc.?

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Driven

In Larry H. Miller's autobiography (which happen to randomly fall in my lap of "need to reads"...not something I would have chosen myself!) his wife shares the following quotes:

Are we mortal beings having a spiritual experience, or are we spiritual beings having a mortal experience?

When the student is prepared, the teacher will appear.

Children are the messengers we send to a time we'll never see.

When obedience ceases to be an irritant and becomes our quest, in that moment God will endow us with power.

If we are charged with being followers of Jesus Christ, would there be enough evidence to convict us?


Something to think about, anyway...